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Life Optimization

The Coffee Isn’t the Point

Following my highly anticipated* return to blogging, I decided to tackle a classic personal finance topic- a daily cup of coffee shop coffee Telling people to forego their daily store-bought coffee used to be popular advice. It was the common example used to show how small savings add up over time. You could take $3/day, save it, and have an extra $1095 at the end of the year. Then you can feed it into investments…

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Living the Good Life

Dispatches from a Season in Life

It’s been very quiet on the blogging front because my life has been full for a good while now. My writing has been more personal- more journaling and less typing out blog posts. And there’s been no time for regular blog posts. I was engaged in one of life’s busy seasons- with big changes and new responsibilities. But now I’m back and I can talk about the past many months. The House I wrote several…

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Life Optimization

The Tax Free Weekend Trap

The Commonwealth of Tax-achusetts has given us a sales tax free weekend every year since 2018. The name is pretty misleading, because there’s a whole host of purchases that are still taxed. And anything more than $2500 is also still taxed. Unfortunately, Tax Free Weekend for Cheapish Things Only doesn’t have the same ring to it. I read a few local news articles on the event and they all talk about saving money. Or flat…

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Living the Good Life

How We Used Travel Rewards to Book 10 Nights in Quebec

Disclaimer: Credit cards are a great tool for maximizing travel. Going into credit card debt to get travel rewards points is not. Only sign up for travel rewards credit cards if you plan to pay it off in full every month. Some links in this post are referrals that will give me some extra travel rewards points. I’m not being paid for people signing up, it’s the basic referral program that the cards offer. If…

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Life Optimization

PBJ Mondays

I ate a peanut butter and jelly sandwich almost every week day for lunch from high school through grad school. I loved them. Through high school and college (as a commuter), my parents supplied me with plenty of food. Even though I had other options, the sublime combination of salty peanut butter and sweet jelly was impossible to beat. It helped that it was also the easiest lunch to make at 6 am when I…

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Living the Good Life

Can You Get Back on Track?

You have a great run of a new habit. For several weeks, you’re exercising daily or finally writing that book. The phone habit that swallows so much of your free time is held at bay. Dare you hope that this routine will stick this time. That this time is different, and you’re a changed creation. For a moment, the path to success- to accomplishing some dream- seems possible. But then you hit The Bump. Maybe…

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The Couch, the Screen, and the Lotus Eaters

When I was a kid, I loved the Percy Jackson book series. It’s a great introduction to Greek Mythology with all of the action and intrigue to keep a middle school boy interested. In the first installment, The Lightning Thief, Percy Jackson and his companions end up stuck in the Lotus Hotel and Casino in Las Vegas. Here, the characters are convinced by the casino staff to eat a lotus flower. The lotus flower causes them…

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The House

That’ll Wake the Neighbors- Our First House Mishap

Encountering some mishap while getting the new house ready was inevitable. It just came from an unexpected source- the alarm system. Our new house has a robust alarm system. There are motion sensors in every room and a panic button in our bedroom. It even has its own little box next to the circuit breaker in the basement. I think it’s overkill considering how nice the neighborhood is. There’s even a light switch in the…

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The Dry Bar Design Dilemma

An exciting feature of our new house is in the basement. The previous owners left an unfinished workshop, laundry, and boiler spaces around the perimeter of the basement. But in the center of it, they built out a finished room, complete with heat for the colder months. The stairs divide the finished area in two. One side is a hang out area that Marisa has already claimed as a crafting and puzzle zone. The other…

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Coming Together by Coming Apart

My dad and I ripped the last wood paneling off the walls of our new house’s master bedroom. Each sheet that came down revealed the wallpaper underneath- blue, with white and gold leaves. As I hauled the last panel into the backyard, Marisa smiled and excitedly said “our house is coming together!”  I thought about all the paneling that still needed to come down and replied “it’s not coming together- it’s coming apart.” Glue from…

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